{"id":51442,"date":"2018-04-17T01:05:18","date_gmt":"2018-04-17T01:05:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/127.0.0.1\/aee\/english-networking-event\/"},"modified":"2023-04-25T15:48:42","modified_gmt":"2023-04-25T15:48:42","slug":"english-networking-event","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.allearsenglish.com\/english-networking-event\/","title":{"rendered":"AEE 931: What NOT to Do in an English Networking Event"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you feel comfortable when you go to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.allearsenglish.com\/aee-160\/\">networking events<\/a> and have to speak English?<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you run out of ways to start the conversation?<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you wonder what phrases are a good way to kick off a conversation and what phrases you should avoid?<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Today we&#8217;ll tell you what to do and what NOT to do when you go to a networking event in English.<\/p>\n<p><strong>It&#8217;s hard to know what to talk about at a professional networking event.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In today&#8217;s episode we&#8217;ll <a href=\"https:\/\/hbr.org\/2018\/01\/8-questions-to-ask-someone-other-than-what-do-you-do\">review an article <\/a>about what to say to start a conversation at an event and we&#8217;ll give our own opinions on the article&#8217;s suggestions.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What does the article say?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This article mentions how it is not a good idea to ask \u201cwhat do you do\u201d at work events.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here is a quote from the article: \u201cAssuming you\u2019re already at a work-related networking event or meeting another person in a work context, the question quickly sets a boundary around the conversation that the other person is now a \u201cwork\u201d contact. It\u2019s possible you might discover another commonality and build a multiplex tie, but it\u2019s far less likely to happen in that conversation.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What to say instead of &#8220;what do you do?&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The article suggests starting the conversation with a question that is not work related and then bring the conversation back to work.<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A good one to try: \u201cWhere did you grow up?\u201d<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Avoid their suggestion to use, \u201cWhat excites you right now?\u201d<\/p>\n<p style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Some alternatives:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;What is the best place you have traveled to?&#8221;<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Something about the weather or the season in general<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Something about the food, if there is food at the event.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Takeaway:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t be boring at a networking event!<\/p>\n<p>However, be careful when you find lists that provide alternative ways to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.allearsenglish.com\/aee-857-stop-sounding-simple-english-conversations\/\">start the conversation.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Maybe ask a native speaker friend what they think about the phrases on a <a href=\"https:\/\/hbr.org\/2018\/01\/8-questions-to-ask-someone-other-than-what-do-you-do\">list like this one<\/a> before trying them.<\/p>\n<p>Today we have given you a bunch of great options to start conversations in an interesting way.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What questions do you have today?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Let us know in the comments below.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Do you feel comfortable when you go to networking events and have to speak English? 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