{"id":50756,"date":"2019-08-21T01:15:15","date_gmt":"2019-08-21T01:15:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/127.0.0.1\/aee\/aee-1212-not-to-sound-bossy-but-you-should-think-twice-before-using-this-phrase\/"},"modified":"2023-04-25T15:44:48","modified_gmt":"2023-04-25T15:44:48","slug":"aee-1212-not-to-sound-bossy-but-you-should-think-twice-before-using-this-phrase","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.allearsenglish.com\/aee-1212-not-to-sound-bossy-but-you-should-think-twice-before-using-this-phrase\/","title":{"rendered":"AEE 1212: Not to Sound Bossy, But You Should Think Twice Before Using This Phrase"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignright size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.allearsenglish.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/1212-1024x575.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-19369\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.allearsenglish.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/1212-1024x575.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.allearsenglish.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/1212-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.allearsenglish.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/1212-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.allearsenglish.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/1212.jpg 1242w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 276px) 100vw, 276px\" width=\"276\" height=\"154\"><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>Do you have a hard time talking about \u201ctouchy subjects\u201d?  What is a touchy subject?<\/p>\n<p>Do you ever hear somebody try to soften something they are about to say?<\/p>\n<p>Do you want to know how to address or bring things up that are a bit controversial in English?<\/p>\n<p>Today we are going to examine a phrase that native speakers use in English that can have some controversy to it.<\/p>\n<p>You will see how it\u2019s used, but also see how it may be taken if used too often. <\/p>\n<div style=\"height:58px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n<h2><strong>Get Your Transcripts Now!<\/strong><\/h2>\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignright size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.allearsenglish.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/All-Ears-English-Transcripts-31.png\" alt=\"All Ears English Transcripts\" class=\"wp-image-19250\" width=\"142\" height=\"205\"><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p> <strong>Make sure you understand every word you hear on All Ears English.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Bring your English to the advanced level with new vocabulary and natural expressions.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Subscribe and get the transcripts delivered by email.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Learn to speak naturally with the American accent.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.allearsenglish.com\/subscribe\"><strong>Click here to subscribe and save 50%<\/strong><\/a>   <\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<div style=\"height:58px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n<p><strong>A Nicer Approach To Controversial Subjects<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sometimes you want to say something, but you know that it may come off wrong.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes you want to say something but you recognize that it may be controversial. <\/p>\n<p>The phrase we\u2019re looking at here is \u201cNot to ________, but\u201d<\/p>\n<p>This could be a few things:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\u201cNot to be SOMETHING, but\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>\u201cNot to get SOMETHING, but\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>\u201cNot to sound SOMETHING, but\u201d<\/li>\n<li><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>These are useful tools overall but they can be a bit overused sometimes too.<\/p>\n<p>You may hear these a lot, and that\u2019s not always a good thing.<\/p>\n<div style=\"height:52px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n<p><strong>Looking At How This Works<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve probably heard these types of phrases used before, but you want to know the connotation behind them. <\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s look at some examples of how these phrases work to get it in context. <\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\u201cNot to get political but I really think you should watch the debates.\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>\u201cNot to sound critical but you haven\u2019t really cleaned your place in a long time.\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>\u201cNot to be rude but you should probably change into some nicer clothes.\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div style=\"height:60px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n<p><strong>How Are They Taken Care Of?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So you can see why there may be a bit of controversy behind these phrases.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s saying you aren\u2019t trying to do something but you do it anyhow! <\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not necessarily always used in this way, but watch out for people using this phrase excessively.<\/p>\n<p>Oftentimes what they are about to say is often exactly what they are saying they are trying to avoid. <\/p>\n<p>Why do people use this phrase? <\/p>\n<p>This may be used to soften what they are about to say.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s to say it may not sound as bad if they are going to say something critical or even rude. <\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t often hear this phrase used about positive things,&nbsp;it always tends to be more negative in nature.<\/p>\n<div style=\"height:53px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n<p><strong>Being Aware of How This May Come Across<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Though we may have all used this type of phrase, you do want to be aware of how it may come across.<\/p>\n<p>It may not even be intended to be rude, but it can come across that way if you\u2019re not careful with your tone.  <\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s nice to soften things from time to time, but this phrase could irritate people if you use it too frequently. <\/p>\n<p>However, it can be a nice tool, especially if you are using it to talk about something other than the person you are talking to.&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>Here are some examples:<\/p>\n<p>L: This dress looks gorgeous! You should get it for the party<\/p>\n<p>M: Hmmm, not to be picky about price, but it\u2019s a little over my budget<\/p>\n<p>M: Let\u2019s take the train<\/p>\n<p>L: Not to sound like a know it all, but I know the train will take too long!<\/p>\n<div style=\"height:54px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n<p><strong>Takeaway<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This is a good phrase for \u201ctouchy\u201d subjects like politics, but it is really avoiding what you want to say. <\/p>\n<p>You have to decide how direct to be and also know that people may be able to see through this phrase. <\/p>\n<p>Consider who you are talking to and the comfort level that you have with them.<\/p>\n<p>Also consider the subject matter, and know that the way in which you deliver the message is always important too.<\/p>\n<div style=\"height:63px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n<p><strong>If you have any questions, please leave them below in the comments section.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>We\u2019ll get back to you as soon as we can. <\/strong><\/p>\n<div style=\"height:63px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Do you have a hard time talking about \u201ctouchy subjects\u201d? 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